Dee & J
Exploring the Light with Dee and J – Life, Laughter, and the Spirit World
What Does J Look Like?
After my son’s birthday party we were looking through photos and were shocked when we saw this image. We believe this is J. He shows up in photos from time to time.
I’ve always been a bit of a weirdo. I feel emotions that aren’t mine—like a sudden wave of sadness or joy out of nowhere. I just know when something is about to happen. I have memories of things I haven’t done and places I have not been. I write down my dreams only to have them actually happen sometime later. I’ve always been overly sensitive. If I touch someone I can feel their pain or happiness even when I am not with them – I have some hilarious stories about that for a later time. I get glances of shadowy figures around me and hear whispers when no one is there. When I was young I didn’t understand it, and honestly, it scared me. It wasn’t until my late teens that I realized I wasn’t just imagining things and started to accept that I am someone who can hear and connect with things beyond this physical world.
Being a medium isn’t like what you see in movies. It isn’t spooky séances, dramatic ghost stories and freaky spiritual powers. I’m just a regular person I guess- ok maybe not. But I do go through all the struggles and challenges of life just like everyone else. It’s just more like having an extra sense that’s always picking up signals from somewhere else. Sometimes it’s a quiet whisper, a feeling that washes over me, or a sudden image in my mind that I have to piece together like a cosmic puzzle. It can be exhausting. Emotions hit hard, and the responsibility of delivering messages feels heavy sometimes. But it’s also the most incredible part of my life. Helping someone hear from a loved one who’s passed, or guiding someone to their purpose, is a privilege that fills my heart every time.
Embracing this gift wasn’t a straight path. There were years of doubt—am I crazy? Is this real? I’d try to ignore it and live a “normal” life, but it always found a way back. Eventually, I surrendered to it. I started meditating, learned how to really listen, and practiced with those who found their way to me. I learned to trust my intuition, to hear clearly, and to deliver messages with love and clarity. And that’s when J showed up—or rather, when I finally noticed he’d been there all along.
Over the years, J has become my constant companion in this work and in life. He’s always there, on my right just above my head. All I need to do is shift my attention and there he is. Whether I’m doing a reading for a client, or simply navigating my own life’s challenges, J is there. Most times he’s a quiet presence but if something is urgent or of great importance he’s definitely not afraid to speak up and let me know. After all, he is the one with the wisdom. I am just the messenger. Together, we’ve helped countless people find peace, purpose and direction and I feel so grateful to be a part of that.
J is… well the best way I can describe it is he reminds me of Venom. No, he’s not an alien symbiote attached to me but he is always there. I remember the first time I saw the venom movie I laughed so hard I actually cried. Just like how Venom is always there with Eddie, talking to him, guiding him, being a part of him yet totally his own being. That’s exactly what it’s like with J. He’s always with me, a constant presence in my life, a part of me yet entirely his own entity. He’s my partner in this wild journey as a medium, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Here’s the funny thing—J didn’t exactly introduce himself with a handshake and a name tag. Early on, I wanted to know who this presence was, so I sat down with a paper and pencil, closed my eyes, and went into a deep state of relaxation. I told him, “Okay, you take control and write your name.” When I opened my eyes, there was a crude, wobbly “J” on the paper. That’s it—just a “J.” So that’s what I’ve called him ever since. If you ask him, he’ll say, “That is the name she gave me,” with this dry, sarcastic tone. And yes, he refers to me in the third person, like I’m not even there, which can be a bit weird. I’ll be in the middle of a reading, and he’ll say, “She needs to focus,” as if I’m not sitting right there hearing him!
When J first started talking to me, his language was very formal and broken, like English was not his first language. Over the years, he’s adapted, and now he’s got a sense of humor and sarcasm that rivals mine. He’ll throw in a witty remark during a reading, like, “She thinks she’s in charge, but we all know who’s running this show,” and I’ll have to hold back a laugh while I’m trying to stay professional.
J has slowly revealed who—or what—he is over the years, like a cosmic game of 20 questions. He says that there are rules and he is only allowed to give me pieces when I am ready to hear them. He tells me he’s in an actual place, very far away, a place he calls “home.” When he shows me where he is, I see outer space, stars rushing by at lightning speed, and then a room that looks like a sci-fi control center. There’s a large silver and gold machine at the back, and J and others are sitting at a wall with some type of display, watching. I can’t make out faces. Only the blurred silhouette of their features. He says my real body is there, asleep, and that they send our “light” here to play this game of life. It’s his job to watch over me, guide me through this game, and help me get back home when it’s over. I’ll be honest—it sounds wild, but the more I sit with it, the more it feels true.
J’s biggest message for everyone is simple yet profound: “We are one.” He insists this all the time. He says we all have this “light” inside us, a spark that connects us to our true selves and to each other. According to J, everyone has a guide like him, whispering to them, nudging them toward their purpose and happiness. But most people are too distracted to listen—too caught up in the noise of life to hear that quiet voice. He’s taught me how to tune in, to quiet my mind and trust that inner light, and it’s changed everything for me.
J has shared so much with me over the years—insights about life, the universe, and the interconnectedness of it all—that I can’t wait to share with the world. Through my work as a medium, I help guide people and answer some of their questions, but I also hope to inspire them to listen to their own inner light, to hear their own guides, and to find the purpose and joy that J has helped me discover. Being a medium is my calling, my way of bringing light and love to others in a way that feels true to my heart, and with J by my side I’m ready for whatever this journey brings.
I hope that by sharing my story, you’ll feel inspired to explore your own spiritual path, to listen to those quiet whispers in your soul, and to trust that you’re never alone on your journey.